Took a shot resently. It is sad when people you trust betray you. But I have some questions I must answer honestly to process the pain:
- What am I pretending not to know?
- What could I have done differently?
- Do I really care?
- Does this affect my dreams?
- Is my ego to blame?
- Can I fix it?
- Should I fix it?
After answering those to myself I feel much better. There is no more anger or betrayal. It is just two people who don’t see eye to eye. And in most cases that is all it ever is. Forgive, forget and change your behavior for the future. If it’s not worth dying for it’s not worth fighting for. Always choose your battles. Keep your mouth shut. And love everyone regardless.